Crying is a newborn's primary way of communicating their needs. While it can be distressing to hear, understanding why your baby cries can help you respond effectively. In this video, we’ll explore common reasons for crying, typical crying patterns, and practical strategies to soothe your baby.
Common Reasons for Crying
- Hunger
The most frequent cause of infant crying is hunger. Newborns have small stomachs and need to feed often. A hunger cry typically starts quietly and builds in intensity, becoming loud and rhythmic. Feeding them promptly can often calm them before crying escalates.
- Dirty Diaper
Babies dislike the discomfort of a wet or soiled diaper. Check their diaper when they cry, especially if the crying seems sudden or persistent. Regular changes help keep your baby comfortable and prevent diaper rash.
- Tiredness
Paradoxically, when babies are overtired, they often cry instead of falling asleep. Keep an eye out for signs of sleepiness, like rubbing their eyes or yawning, and work on setting a consistent sleep routine. Want to learn more about these signs, and knowing when your baby is ready for sleep? Check out our previous video on Baby Sleep Cues!
- Temperature Discomfort
Babies are sensitive to being too hot or too cold. Check if they’re dressed appropriately for the room’s temperature. Feeling the back of their neck or chest is a good way to gauge if they’re too warm or cool.
- Need for Comfort
Babies often cry when they need to be held or soothed. They find comfort in being close to you, as it mimics the security they felt in the womb. Skin-to-skin contact, gentle rocking, soft shushing sounds, and swaddling with their arms free to move, can help provide babies the comfort they need.
- Gas or Tummy Troubles
Gas pains or colic can cause discomfort and crying. If your baby seems to cry after feedings, they may need to burp. Gentle tummy massages or holding them in an upright position can help relieve gas.
- Overstimulation or Boredom
Babies can also become overwhelmed by their environment, leading to crying. Too much noise, light, or activity can overwhelm a baby. If your baby has been exposed to lots of activity, try moving them to a quieter, dimmer space. On the other hand, if a baby is under-stimulated, they might cry out of boredom. Observing their environment and adjusting it accordingly can help.
- Teething Pain
From around 4-7 months, teething can cause discomfort. Signs include drooling, biting on objects, and swollen gums. A cool teething toy or gentle gum massage may ease their pain.
- Illness
If none of the usual methods soothe your baby, they could be unwell. Look for other symptoms like fever, rash, or changes in appetite and behaviour. If you’re concerned, consult a healthcare professional.
Understanding Newborn Crying Patterns
Newborns cry more in the first three months of life than at any other time. This period follows a "crying curve," where crying begins to increase around 2–3 weeks, peaks between 6–8 weeks, and gradually declines by 12 weeks. During this time, babies can cry for up to five hours a day, often more during the late afternoon or evening. Additionally, crying can be unexplained, starting and stopping without warning. However, the intensity and frequency of crying can vary, as every baby is unique.
The crying curve occurs due to several factors related to infant development. As babies' brains mature, they become more aware of their surroundings, leading to increased fussiness and crying. Babies are also adjusting to life outside the womb, which can be overwhelming. Crying serves as their primary means of communication in the early months, expressing various needs and discomforts.
When to Seek Help
While crying is normal, there are times when you should consult a healthcare provider:
- If your baby's cry suddenly changes in pitch, pattern, or volume.
- If crying is accompanied by fever, poor feeding, or vomiting.
- If you're feeling overwhelmed or frustrated by your baby's crying.
- Remember, it's okay to put your baby down in a safe place and take a short break if you're feeling overwhelmed. Never shake a baby, as this can cause severe brain damage.
